When You’re Not at Your Best…Keep Your Head Up

The Therapist is a Human Being At different times in your life and for various reasons, you will not be at your best. If you are a psychotherapist, coach, teacher or really if you do anything at all…not being at your best can be frustrating. Your responsibilities don’t go away even when you need a … Read more

Boundaries, Money and Well-Being

How you can tell if you have boundaries that support your well-being? I don’t know the answer to this definitively. However, below are some considerations. We are all on this journey. Set judgement aside. Be kind to yourself as you read my questions and propositions below. Remember, not only is perfection not real…it is super … Read more

The Gift of Staycations

What is a Staycation? The way that I define a staycation may be different than how others might define it. A staycation is when I take a break from my work schedule and allow myself to take a break. I don’t schedule work related appointments during staycation. I use the term staycation because I don’t … Read more

Set Limits…But Don’t Expect People to Like It

Levels to Setting Limits Loss and care taking have deepened my experience of setting healthy boundaries. My father died from cancer 4 years ago this month. My mom was diagnosed with moderate Alzheimer’s shortly after my father’s death. Walking alongside those painful experiences with them meant (and continues to mean) that I had to be … Read more