Ashamed of Desire Itself

Moving in Silence Occasionally I see or hear people advising others to “move in silence”  and not share their plans or desires with others. While that may be a good strategy for protecting yourself, it is not a great strategy for gaining support. Perhaps there is some merit to the advice. Maybe everyone doesn’t need … Read more

What Will Happen When You Arrive?

What Will Happen When You Arrive? So many people behave as if their day-to-day lives are in a holding pattern. Engaging in their lives like they are circling the airport waiting to land. Behaving as if life will hold more value when they get to the next stage. The truth is that your life will … Read more

Why Goal Setting May Hinder Progress

Writing Down Goals Positive psychology researchers and other researchers have found that people who write down their goals are more likely to achieve them. So of course I know that setting goals is important. I also engage in goal setting in all of the services that I provide. However, I believe that a heavy focus … Read more